
Personal Growth Library

FILMS AND VIDEOS
Film Netflix: The Mind Explained
Learn moreProfessor Paul Gilbert: Attachment Theory, Compassion and the Nervous System
Professor Paul Gilbert on Attachment Theory, Compassion and the Nervous System
Learn moreBeing Versus Doing
Cultivating Compassion
Self-Regulation
Teen Voices: Oversharing and Your Digital Footprint
Learn moreNetflix: The Social Dilemma
Learn moreIndieFlix: LIKE: A documentary about finding balance in our digital world
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BOOKS
Attention
Dunkley, C. and Stanton, M. (2017). Using Mindfulness Skills in Everyday Life: A Practical Guide. Routledge.
Gallagher, W. (2009). Rapt: Attention and the Focused Life. Penguin Books.
Gazzaley, A. & Rosen, L. (2016). The Distracted Mind: Ancient Brains in a High Tech World. MIT Press.
Attention Deficit
Mate, G. (2019). Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder. Vermilion.
Hallowell, E. and Ratey, J. (1994). Driven to Distraction: Recognizing and Coping with Attention Deficit Disorder. Anchor Books.

PODCASTS
Hanson, Forrest (2024) Being Well Podcast: Attachment Masterclass
The Art and Science of Connection | Being Well
APPS
QUOTES
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"In a vast and indifferent universe, our best respite and consolation lie in the sincere connections we can make with other fragile humans. "
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"What this work is about is connecting up with the present moment in a particular kind of way."
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"Do not fight your negative emotions. Observe and befriend them. "
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"A moment of self-compassion can change your entire day. A string of such moments can change the course of your life."
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"Ask not why the addiction but why the pain"
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"If you want revenge because your feelings are hurt, all you can see is your own suffering. But if you calm yourself and look more deeply, you will see that the person who hurt you is suffering too."
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"The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives "
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"...The truth is we are all ordinary. No matter how famous or beautiful one is, no matter how much money or power one has, no matter how many wonderful accomplishments one has had, we all have our share of setbacks, heartbreak, and loss. We have to face challenges we have no control over. Loneliness and the fear of death will accompany us to our final days. Everyone is on the same treacherous journey of life’s tainted glory. So, i love you, you who shyly stood before me, murmuring softly that you are ordinary…."
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"Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that."
WEBSITES
Dr. Tara Brach
Dr. Brach is a clinical psychologist and leading voice on emotional healing and spiritual awakening through mindful loving awareness. She also addresses the alleviation of suffering in the larger world by practicing compassion in action. In addition to numerous articles, videos, and hundreds of recorded talks, Tara is the author of Radical Acceptance, True Refuge, Radical Compassion, and Trusting the Gold.
Dr. Brene Brown
Dr. Brown has spent the last two decades studying courage, vulnerability, shame, and empathy. She is the author of six New York Times bestsellers and hosts two podcasts. She believes that you have to walk through vulnerability to get to courage.
The British Psychological Society
Offers its members tools and resources to enhance their careers, with the latest psychological research, CPD opportunities and tailored events.
Deb Dana: Rhythm of Regulation
Deb Dana’s work shows how an understanding of Polyvagal Theory is useful in relationships, mental health, and trauma treatment. She is very good at presenting Polyvagal Theory in a language that is easy to understand. She believes that we all benefit when we have an understanding of the ways in which our nervous system works and develop the skills to self-regulate.
The Compassionate Mind Foundation
The Home of Compassion Focused Therapy and Compassionate Mind Training
Dr. Chris Germer
Dr. Germer is a clinical psychologist and lecturer on psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. He co-developed the Mindful Self-Compassion (MSC) program with Dr. Kristin Neff in 2010. His primary interest is self-compassion, a topic he stumbled upon in 2005 as a solution to his decades-long struggle with public speaking anxiety. His books include The Mindful Path to Self-Compassion, The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook, and Mindful Self-Compassion for Burnout.
Dr. Chris Irons: Compassion Focused Therapy
Dr. Irons has worked with Dr. Paul Gilbert, the developer of Compassion Focused Therapy, since 1999. He is one of the leading trainers and supervisors of Compassion Focused Therapy, regularly presenting internationally on CFT and self compassion more generally.
Dr. Gabor Mate
A renowned speaker an bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Mate is well-known for his expertise on topics like addiction, stress, and child development. Rather than offering quick fix solutions to these complex issues, Dr. Mate weaves together scientific research, case histories, and his own insights and experience to empower people to promote their own healing.
Dr. Kristin Neff
Dr. Neff has written numerous academic articles and books on the topic of self-compassion. She is also the author of several books and workbooks and, together with Dr. Chris Germer, created a training programme called Mindful Self-Compassion. She also co-founded the Center for Mindful Self-Compassion, which offers trainings in a variety of formats.
Ester Perel
One of today’s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships. She has given TED Talks that garnered more than 40 million views and her bestselling books, Mating in Captivity and The State of Affairs, have been translated into 30 languages. She also hosts the hit podcast Where Should I Begin?
Dr. Stephen Porges: Polyvagal Theory
In 1994 propose the Polyvagal Theory, a theory that links the evolution of the mammalian autonomic nervous system to social behaviour and emphasises the importance of physiological state in the expression of behavioural problems and psychiatric disorders. He is also co-founder of the Polyvagal Institute.
The School of Life-Alain de Botton
Devoted to bringing you calm, self-understanding, better relationships, greater effectiveness at work and more fulfillment in your leisure time, the School of Life offers you an attractive range of articles, books, apps, films, therapeutic services, and corporate offerings.
Dr. Richard Schwartz: Founder of Internal Family Systems
Dr. Schwartz developed Internal Family Systems (IFS) in response to his clients’ descriptions of various parts within themselves. He focused on the relationships among these parts and noticed systemic patterns across clients in how they were organised. He also realised that when the clients’ parts felt safe and could relax, clients could access qualities of confidence, openness, compassion, a state that Dr. Schwartz refers to as the Self.
Dr. Shefali Tsabary: Child Expert
Dr. Shefali is a clinical psychologist and expert in family dynamics and personal development. She has written seven books, three of which are New York Times bestsellers: The Conscious Parent, A Radical Awakening, and The Parenting Map.
Eckhart Tolle
One of the most widely recognised inspiring and visionary spiritual teachers in the world today. He has introduced millions to the joy and freedom of living life in the present moment. His profound yet simple teachings have helped many people around the globe experience a state of vibrantly alive inner peace in their daily lives. He discusses the significance and power of Presence, an awakened state of consciousness that transcends the ego and wandering thoughts.
CONCEPTS
Emotions that Interfere With Connection:
Intolerance
Impatience
Envy
Jealousy
Greed
Judgment
Gossip
Resentment
Cultivating Prosocial Qualities
Curiosity
Tolerance
Patience
Gratitude
Generosity
Compassion
Self-Restraint
Forbearance
Self-Regulation
Forgiveness
Forbearance: noun
patient self-control
restraint and tolerance
TALKS
FICTION
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