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Welcome. Our library features films, podcasts, talks, websites, non-fiction and fiction books, apps, quotes, concepts, poetry, and artwork. We hope you find something that inspires you.
FILMS AND VIDEOS

FILMS AND VIDEOS

Film Netflix: The Mind Explained

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Professor Paul Gilbert: Attachment Theory, Compassion and the Nervous System

Professor Paul Gilbert on Attachment Theory, Compassion and the Nervous System

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Being Versus Doing

The Power of Patience – Talk with Dr. Rick Hanson

Hanson, R. (2025).

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Being

Kabat-Zinn, J. (2011).

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Cultivating Compassion

Guided Meditation: The RAIN of Self Compassion with Tara Brach

Brach, T. (2016).

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Self-Compassion: An Antidote to Shame - YouTube

Germer, C. (2021).

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The Three Components of Self-Compassion

Neff, K. (2014).

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Self-Regulation

Polyvagal Theory Made Simple

Dana, D. (2023)

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Teen Voices: Oversharing and Your Digital Footprint

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Netflix: The Social Dilemma

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IndieFlix: LIKE: A documentary about finding balance in our digital world

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BOOKS

BOOKS

Attention

MindfulnessWell Being

Dunkley, C. and Stanton, M. (2017). Using Mindfulness Skills in Everyday Life: A Practical Guide. Routledge.

Attention

Gallagher, W. (2009). Rapt: Attention and the Focused Life. Penguin Books.

Gazzaley, A. & Rosen, L. (2016). The Distracted Mind: Ancient Brains in a High Tech World. MIT Press.

Attention Deficit

Mate, G. (2019). Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder. Vermilion.

Hallowell, E. and Ratey, J. (1994). Driven to Distraction: Recognizing and Coping with Attention Deficit Disorder. Anchor Books.

PODCASTS

PODCASTS

APPS

QUOTES

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"In a vast and indifferent universe, our best respite and consolation lie in the sincere connections we can make with other fragile humans. "
Alain de Botton

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"What this work is about is connecting up with the present moment in a particular kind of way."
Jon Kabat-Zinn

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"Do not fight your negative emotions. Observe and befriend them. "
Haemin Sunim

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"A moment of self-compassion can change your entire day. A string of such moments can change the course of your life."
Dr. Chris Germer

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"Ask not why the addiction but why the pain"
Gabor Mate

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"If you want revenge because your feelings are hurt, all you can see is your own suffering. But if you calm yourself and look more deeply, you will see that the person who hurt you is suffering too."
Haemin Sunim

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"The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives "
Esther Perel

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"...The truth is we are all ordinary. No matter how famous or beautiful one is, no matter how much money or power one has, no matter how many wonderful accomplishments one has had, we all have our share of setbacks, heartbreak, and loss. We have to face challenges we have no control over. Loneliness and the fear of death will accompany us to our final days. Everyone is on the same treacherous journey of life’s tainted glory. So, i love you, you who shyly stood before me, murmuring softly that you are ordinary…."
Haemin Sunim

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"Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that."
Reverend Martin Luther King

WEBSITES

Dr. Tara Brach

Dr. Brach is a clinical psychologist and leading voice on emotional healing and spiritual awakening through mindful loving awareness. She also addresses the alleviation of suffering in the larger world by practicing compassion in action. In addition to numerous articles, videos, and hundreds of recorded talks, Tara is the author of Radical Acceptance, True Refuge, Radical Compassion, and Trusting the Gold.

Well Being

Dr. Brene Brown

Dr. Brown has spent the last two decades studying courage, vulnerability, shame, and empathy. She is the author of six New York Times bestsellers and hosts two podcasts. She believes that you have to walk through vulnerability to get to courage.

The British Psychological Society

Offers its members tools and resources to enhance their careers, with the latest psychological research, CPD opportunities and tailored events.

Regulation

Deb Dana: Rhythm of Regulation

Deb Dana’s work shows how an understanding of Polyvagal Theory is useful in relationships, mental health, and trauma treatment. She is very good at presenting Polyvagal Theory in a language that is easy to understand. She believes that we all benefit when we have an understanding of the ways in which our nervous system works and develop the skills to self-regulate.

The Compassionate Mind Foundation

The Home of Compassion Focused Therapy and Compassionate Mind Training

Dr. Chris Germer

Dr. Germer is a clinical psychologist and lecturer on psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. He co-developed the Mindful Self-Compassion (MSC) program with Dr. Kristin Neff in 2010. His primary interest is self-compassion, a topic he stumbled upon in 2005 as a solution to his decades-long struggle with public speaking anxiety. His books include The Mindful Path to Self-Compassion, The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook, and Mindful Self-Compassion for Burnout.

Dr. Chris Irons: Compassion Focused Therapy

Dr. Irons has worked with Dr. Paul Gilbert, the developer of Compassion Focused Therapy, since 1999. He is one of the leading trainers and supervisors of Compassion Focused Therapy, regularly presenting internationally on CFT and self compassion more generally.

Dr. Gabor Mate

A renowned speaker an bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Mate is well-known for his expertise on topics like addiction, stress, and child development. Rather than offering quick fix solutions to these complex issues, Dr. Mate weaves together scientific research, case histories, and his own insights and experience to empower people to promote their own healing.

Dr. Kristin Neff

Dr. Neff has written numerous academic articles and books on the topic of self-compassion. She is also the author of several books and workbooks and, together with Dr. Chris Germer, created a training programme called Mindful Self-Compassion. She also co-founded the Center for Mindful Self-Compassion, which offers trainings in a variety of formats.

Ester Perel

One of today’s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships. She has given TED Talks that garnered more than 40 million views and her bestselling books, Mating in Captivity and The State of Affairs, have been translated into 30 languages. She also hosts the hit podcast Where Should I Begin?

Dr. Stephen Porges: Polyvagal Theory

In 1994 propose the Polyvagal Theory, a theory that links the evolution of the mammalian autonomic nervous system to social behaviour and emphasises the importance of physiological state in the expression of behavioural problems and psychiatric disorders. He is also co-founder of the Polyvagal Institute.

The School of Life-Alain de Botton

Devoted to bringing you calm, self-understanding, better relationships, greater effectiveness at work and more fulfillment in your leisure time, the School of Life offers you an attractive range of articles, books, apps, films, therapeutic services, and corporate offerings.

Dr. Richard Schwartz: Founder of Internal Family Systems

Dr. Schwartz developed Internal Family Systems (IFS) in response to his clients’ descriptions of various parts within themselves. He focused on the relationships among these parts and noticed systemic patterns across clients in how they were organised. He also realised that when the clients’ parts felt safe and could relax, clients could access qualities of confidence, openness, compassion, a state that Dr. Schwartz refers to as the Self.

Dr. Shefali Tsabary: Child Expert

Dr. Shefali is a clinical psychologist and expert in family dynamics and personal development. She has written seven books, three of which are New York Times bestsellers: The Conscious Parent, A Radical Awakening, and The Parenting Map.

Eckhart Tolle

One of the most widely recognised inspiring and visionary spiritual teachers in the world today. He has introduced millions to the joy and freedom of living life in the present moment. His profound yet simple teachings have helped many people around the globe experience a state of vibrantly alive inner peace in their daily lives. He discusses the significance and power of Presence, an awakened state of consciousness that transcends the ego and wandering thoughts.

CONCEPTS

Emotions that Interfere With Connection:

Intolerance

Impatience

Envy

Jealousy

Greed

Judgment

Gossip

Resentment

Cultivating Prosocial Qualities

Curiosity

Tolerance

Patience

Gratitude

Generosity

Compassion

Self-Restraint

Forbearance

Self-Regulation

Forgiveness

Forbearance: noun

patient self-control

restraint and tolerance

TALKS

FICTION

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